The Ultimate Best Man Guide

So, you've been asked to be the Best Man, what an honor! This important role isn’t just about standing next to the groom in a sharp suit at the altar. You’re the groom’s go-to guy and right-hand man throughout the whole wedding journey. Ready to help your best friend have the best day ever? Let’s dive into everything you need to know to totally crush it as the Best Man!

Photographer: Taylor Felts Photography

Be the Groom’s Hype Man

Your top priority? Keeping the groom’s energy high and spirits bright. From the second he gets engaged to the moment he says “I do,” your energy sets the tone. Whether it’s calming his nerves or hyping him up before the ceremony, your role is to keep him confident, chill, and ready to go. You bring the good vibes, always.

Show Up and Show Out at All the Pre-Wedding Events

Bachelor party? You’re planning it. Engagement party, rehearsal dinner, suit fittings? You’re front and center. Being the Best Man means being all in for every part of the wedding journey if your schedule allows. And don't just show up, be helpful, be fun, and make sure the groom feels supported and celebrated the whole way.

Photographer: Tierney Faith Photography

Spread the Positivity

Let’s face it, weddings come with their fair share of stress. Be the man who keeps things cool, cracks a joke when the room gets tense, and helps your groom remember what it’s all about, marrying the love of his life. If drama pops up between the wedding party, be the peacekeeper and keep the mood light and easy.

Lead the Charge on the Wedding Day

The morning of the wedding is game time. Make sure the groom eats something, has everything he needs, his tie? His socks? The rings?!, and make sure he isn’t pacing the floor in a panic. Keep the groomsmen on track, play some pump-up music, and set the tone for a chill and fun morning with the groomsmen before the ceremony together.

Photographer: Kristen Thomison

Be the Groom’s Right-Hand Guy

You’re his guy for everything. Need someone to keep track of the rings? That’s you. Help him tie his bow tie? You’re on it. Sneak him a breath mint before the ceremony? Already done. You’re the steady presence that helps him stay calm and collected, no matter what.

Hold Onto Those Rings Like Your Life Depends on It

During the ceremony, all eyes might be on the couple, but you’ve got a huge role to play. Keep those rings safe and secure and be ready to deliver them to the officiant when asked.

Photographer: Anna Ray Photography

Kick Off the Toasts

One of the first toasts at the reception? That’s all you. Whether you go sentimental, funny, or a little bit of both, make it personal, keep it respectful, and speak from the heart. Pro tip: keep it short and sweet, the best wedding speeches are always around 2-3 minutes!

Get the Party Started

Once dinner and formalities are done, it’s time to party, and you’re leading the charge. Be the first one on the dance floor, drag your fellow groomsmen out there with you, and make sure the couple, and everyone else is having a blast. Your job is to bring the energy and keep the celebration going all night long!

Photographer: M Visuals

Team Up with the Maid of Honor

You and the Maid of Honor are the dream team. Keep in touch about the logistics, and any surprises throughout the day. Tag-teaming the responsibilities means less stress for the couple and smoother sailing from start to finish.

Remember: It’s His Day, Not Yours

Yes, you're going to have a ton of fun, but your job is to support the groom, whatever he needs, whenever he needs it. Back him up, respect his choices, and keep the spotlight on the happy couple.

Photographer: Kari Sego Photography

Being the Best Man is a big deal. It’s not just about what you do, it’s about how you should up and the energy you bring. This is your moment to create memories, support your best friend, and have a front-row seat to one of the biggest days of his life. So enjoy it, own it, and be the best Best Man ever!