The Perks of Having a Joint Bachelor & Bachelorette Party
Planning a bachelor or bachelorette party is exciting, but sometimes, splitting into two groups can feel complicated, expensive, or overwhelming to plan. More and more couples are opting for a joint celebration, where both sides of the wedding party come together for one big celebration. Not only does this save on planning stress, but it also makes for unforgettable memories with everyone you love the most in one place.
If you’re considering a group bachelor and bachelorette party, here are some creative themes and activities to inspire your planning.
Why Do a Joint Party?
More time together - The wedding day goes by in a flash, and many couples wish they had more opportunities to celebrate with their full wedding party. A joint bachelor and bachelorette event gives you that extra time to enjoy each other’s company before the big day.
Flexibility - A combined party doesn’t mean you have to do everything together. Plan group activities, then split into smaller groups for separate adventures. For example, the guys might hit the golf course while the girls enjoy a winery tour and then you all meet up in the evening for dinner together.
Bonding opportunity - Your wedding party may not all know each other well yet. A joint trip helps everyone connect ahead of time, making the wedding day itself feel more relaxed and fun.
Simplified planning - Instead of coordinating two separate celebrations, you only have to plan one. That means less stress and more focus on creating meaningful memories together!
Fun Theme Ideas
Camp “[Last Name]” - Book a cozy cabin getaway for a weekend filled with bonfires, s’mores, and boat days on the lake. This theme brings back all the nostalgic vibes of summer camp but with an adult twist.
Final Fiesta - Bright colors, margaritas, tacos, and festive decor make this theme a guaranteed hit. Perfect for couples who love Mexican food and want a lively, vibrant party atmosphere.
Sea Shells & Wedding Bells - Let’s go to the beach! Think tropical cocktails, seashell accents, and summer outfits. Spend your days soaking up the sun and swimming in the ocean, then gather for a seaside dinner in the evening.
The Perfect Match - Inspired by pickleball or tennis, this sporty theme is great for couples who enjoy a little healthy competition. You can even hand out mini trophies for bragging rights.
Tinis & Weenies - A playful, lighthearted theme that pairs martinis with hotdogs, brats, or BBQ. It’s untraditional and perfect for couples who don’t take themselves too seriously.
Activities Everyone Will Love
Pool Party or Beach Day - Sun, music, drinks, and games make for an easy, fun day together.
Winery or Brewery Hopping - A great way to explore a new city or enjoy local flavors.
Competitive Game Night - From board games to trivia or yard games, this is a budget-friendly and fun way to bond.
Hibachi Dinner - Dinner with a show! A hibachi night is interactive and always a crowd-pleaser. Some cities also have hibachi companies that are able to travel to your house for a more intimate experience!
Themed Dinner Night - Match your meal to your theme (taco night, Italian feast, seafood boil) and dress the part. For example, on taco night everyone could wear bright colors and fun sombreros to match the festive vibe.
Joint bachelor and bachelorette parties are the perfect way to maximize fun, simplify planning, and bring your closest people together before the wedding day. Whether you go all-in with a theme like “Final Fiesta” or keep it casual with a pool day and game night, the most important thing is celebrating in a way that feels true to you as a couple.
So grab your wedding party, pick a theme, and start planning a weekend that you’ll be reminiscing about long after the wedding day!
